abang misai li

doumo boku desu!

bersempena dengan coti-coti sekolah ni, makanya banyaklah berlangsungnya walimah2 dan seterusnya diikuti upacara mendirikan masjid.heh..jeleslak aku jap..

member2 yg 'selesai' dah last year, tahun ni pakat2 menerima ahli baru dalam hidup.a new born.for sure, baby2 comel untuk pasangan masing2.tahniah! untuk yang masih merancang, silakan merancang, jgn over-due dah la yek ;p hehe..

pernah aku kena banned jap dari list khatib2 sbb khutbah aku menyentuh pasal kekeluargaan, padahal aku tak kawin lagi.heh..siap kene sound ngan sorg bapak dari indon ni..
"kamu belum nikah ya?"

heh..senyum jelah..actually, takdelah banned..biasela..bile ade yg tekena kat btg idung tu, ade la yg nak bebunyi sket..well..pengalaman.tulah, lain kali jage2 sket..peringatan utk diri sendiri.. kn saidina umar dah pesan, kalau kau tu nelayan, jgn la ckp pasal engineering..kang ade yg salahnye..hehe..aku la tu..takde pengalaman just teori je..kan dah kene tego..takpe2..blaja2.

okes..ni ade sket lagi teori untuk bapak2 or bakal2 bapak

HOW to be a SUCCESSFUL HUSBAND

fuh..tajuk..ghempak!

[1] Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.
heh..kalau antum org suke tgk wives antum org cun melecun, macam tula jugak isteri antum org tu.cube pk balik, bile agak2nye last sekali antum org gi shopping beli pajama?hehe..haa..mesti ade yg remang je bulu roma..dressing la sket..ape salahnye kan?dulu mase nak tekel, rambut beminyak,skrg takkan la nak biaq kusut masai je kot.trim2 la ape yg patut di trim..nak senang pk camni," camne aku nak ngorat bini aku ari ni ek?" hehe

[2]Use the cutest names for your wife.
Rasulullah (saw) had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved.alaa..takkan si dia je nak ber darling2.. you all pon same2 la..klu kate name dia Peah, panggil la yg besh2 sket..Pea aahh ke..hehe.. takpon bg jelah name lain..yg cute2..sure dia suke nye..alahai..macam la tak penah berchatting..panggil nick name chat dia pon ok ape? "gadis_sepi82" haha..

[3]If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment!
It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered. Rasulullah pon pakai care ni tau.. igt tak mase Aishah masak telebih garam, nabi tak tego direct..tp, baginda ckp krg lbh camni la " meh kanda nak suap dinda.aa..nganga luas!" bile disuapkan kat Aishah baru his wife tu perasaan yg masakan dia termasin itu ari..termerah2 la muke dia.."sori yang..i x rase dulu tadi"
* dialog diubah suai*

[4]Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often.
Remember also those Ahadith when Rasulullah (saw) would kiss his wife before leaving for solat, even if he was fasting. Senyum la!takkan nak monyok je..tau la penat keje.senyum la sket, bg kurang sket kedut2 tu..hehe..lgpon senyum kan sedekah.ape salanhnye..lega dia tgk senyum awak bang..kang dia tepikat ngan senyum org lain kang tak pasal2 je..tulah..dok monyok sgt;p

[5]Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again!
She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup.Rase dihargai kan bile kite bos kite kate thanks kat kite.macam tu la jugak si dia.awak kan bos, dia kan secreatary sepenuh mase.ape saje dia buat don't let that be; thank her!

[6]Be humorous and Play games with your wife.
Rasulullah (saw) would race his wife A'ishah (ra) in the desert.Lumbe lari you. penah tengok cite antara dua benua tak?mase tu si mamat ni ajak si awek ni lumbe lari.pastu macam biasela, laki kan speedy..si awek ni majuk la..tanak lari..berdiri tarik muke masyam kat blkg.sbb kene tggl..hehe..then si lelaki ni pon lari la patah balik ke that awek.ape dia buat..bukan lumbe lari balik, dia angkat awek tu, dukung, bawak lari lagi ke depan.. hehe.. sooo sweett.. (buat gaye awek2 pgg tgn dua2 belah tak kat dagu sambil sebut..sooo sweetttt!!)

[7]Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger (saw), "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family."Jadilah penghibur keluarga kita.tak susah kan?dari dok bengkiang tak tentu hala..jadi friendly kan lagi baik..;)

And Allah ta'ala knows best!!

pakchaque:dedicated tu mr Lebai dgn ucapan, dah ade 'bas' kosong dah?selamat menjadi suami mithali.jgn jadi abg misai li ye!